You know what he’d be doing if he had been really over you?
Nothing. He’d feel indifferent in your direction.
If he’s got strong feelings about you – well, those strong feelings don’t come from nowhere. They show up from lingering emotions in regards to you.
He’s that is hurting he’s messed up concerning the breakup. People that are hurting lash out in a great deal of other ways – however it all comes from the feelings that are unresolved got inside.
If he’s lashing down – provide him room. Nothing effective can come from engaging along with his negative emotions – and he’ll probably draw you into their negativity also.
Therefore if he’s raging, or bellowing, or expressing their anger – allow him. Don’t engage. Don’t respond. Don’t make an effort to turn their negativity into positivity. 続きを読む